ABAVYEYI
6: Indero
ICO BISOBANURA
Irivuga kurera rishobora gusobanura kuyobora canke kwigisha. Hari n’igihe rijamwo gukosora ingeso mbi umwana afise. Ariko rero akenshi, riserura iciyumviro co gutoza umwana indero izomufasha mu buzima.
IGITUMA BIHAMBAYE
Muri iyi myaka ya vuba, indero isa n’iyazimanganye mu ngo zimwezimwe kuko hari abavyeyi batinya gukosora abana babo ngo vyohava bituma bumva ko ata co bamaze. Ariko abavyeyi babona kure barashingira abana babo amategeko atarenza urugero, bakabamenyereza no kuyakurikiza.
“Abana barakeneye gushingirwa akarimbi ntarengwa kugira ngo bakure bafise ico bubaha. Abana badatozwa indero bameze nk’ubwato butagira ingafe, kuko buruhira guta inzira canke mbere bukubama.”—Pamela.
ICO WOKORA
Ntube mahindagu. Igihe umwana wawe adakurikije amategeko wamushingiye, muhane. Ku rundi ruhande, niwame umukeza igihe cose ayakurikije.
“Ndakunda gukeza abana banje kubona ari abana bagamburuka muri iyi si itagira indero. Kubera ko ndabakeza, biroroha cane iyo hageze ko ndabakosora.”—Christine.
ICO BIBILIYA IVUGA: “Ico umuntu abiba cose [ni] co nyene azokwimbura.”—Abagalatiya 6:7.
Nturenze urugero. Igihe utoza indero umwana wawe fatira ku myaka yiwe, ivyo ashoboye be n’uburemere bw’ikosa yakoze. Akenshi igihano kiba ngirakamaro iyo gihuye n’ikosa ryakozwe. Nk’akarorero, nimba akoresha nabi telefone, woshobora kugabanya umwanya ayikoresha canke ukayimwaka mu kiringo kanaka. Ariko rero, uririnda kuza urashavuzwa n’akantu kose.
“Ndagerageza kuraba nimba umwana wanje yakoze ikosa nkana canke nimba kamuciyemwo gusa. Ingeso n’ikosa biratandukanye. Ingeso ikwiye kuranduranwa n’imizi, ikosa na ryo rigakosorwa.”—Wendell.
ICO BIBILIYA IVUGA: “Ntimuratse abana banyu, kugira ngo ntibavunike umutima.”—Abakolosayi 3:21.
Garagaza urukundo. Abana barakira neza indero batojwe kandi bakayikurikiza igihe baba bazi ko umuvyeyi ayibatoje bivuye ku rukundo.
“Igihe umuhungu wacu yaba akoze amakosa, twaramuhumuriza tukamubwira ko dushima ibintu vyiza vyose yaba yarakoze. Twaramusigurira yuko hamwe yokwikosora, ayo makosa atotuma aboneka nabi kandi ko twari twiteguriye kumufasha.”—Daniel.
ICO BIBILIYA IVUGA: “Urukundo ruriyumanganya kandi rugira ubuntu.”—1 Abakorinto 13:4.
Raba kandi
UMUNARA W’INDERETSI
Ingene wotoza indero abana bawe
Bibiliya iravuga ibintu bitatu bifasha gutanga indero ngirakamaro.
BE MASO!
Indero yaroye he?
Muri iki gihe, hoba hariho abavyeyi barera abana babo bisunze ivyiyumviro vya ba bahinga bo mu myaka ya 1960?
UMUNARA W’INDERETSI
Ugutoza indero abana
Igihe mudahuza ku bijanye n’ingene mwotoza indero umwana, birashobora kugira ingaruka mbi ku muryango wanyu. Raba ico mwokora.
BE MASO!
Ingene wotoza indero umwana wawe w’umuyabaga
Gutoza indero bisobanura kwigisha. Ingingo ngenderwako zo muri Bibiliya zirashobora kugufasha kwigisha umwana wawe w’umuyabaga kugamburuka aho kugarariza.
