LĒSONI 9
ʻE Lava Fēfē ke Fiefia Ho Fāmilí?
1. Ko e hā ʻoku mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ai ʻa e nofo malí ki he fiefia ʻa e fāmilí?
ʻOku haʻu ʻa e ongoongo leleí meia Sihova, ko e ʻOtua fiefia, ʻa ia ʻokú ne fiemaʻu ʻa e ngaahi fāmilí ke nau fiefia. (1 Tīmote 1:11) Naʻá ne fokotuʻu ʻa e nofo malí. ʻOku mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ʻa e nofo mali fakalaó ki he fiefia ʻa e fāmilí koeʻuhí ʻoku tokonaki mai ai ha ʻātakai malu ki hono ʻohake ʻa e fānaú. ʻOku totonu ke tokaʻi ʻe he kau Kalisitiané ʻa e ngaahi lao fakalotofonua fekauʻaki mo e lēsisita ʻo e nofo malí.—Lau ʻa e Luke 2:1, 4, 5.
ʻOku anga-fēfē ʻa e vakai ʻa e ʻOtuá ki he nofo malí? ʻOkú ne fiemaʻu mai ke hoko ia ko ha haʻi tuʻuloa ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo ha tangata mo ha fefine. ʻOku fiemaʻu ʻe Sihova ʻa e ngaahi husepānití mo e ngaahi uaifí ke nau femateakiʻaki. (Hepelū 13:4) ʻOkú ne fakaliliʻa ʻi he vete malí. (Malakai 2:16) Ka ʻokú ne fakaʻatā ʻa e kau Kalisitiané ke nau vete pea toe mali kapau ʻoku fai ha tono ʻe honau hoá.—Lau ʻa e Mātiu 19:3-6, 9.
2. ʻOku totonu ke fēfē ʻa e fefakafeangaiʻaki ʻa ha husepāniti mo ha uaifi?
Naʻe fakatupu ʻe Sihova ʻa e kakai tangatá mo e kakai fefiné ke nau fakalato ʻa e ngaahi ngafa fefakakakatoʻaki ʻi he nofo malí. (Sēnesi 2:18) ʻI he tuʻunga ko e ʻulu ʻo e fāmilí, ʻoku totonu ai ki ha husepāniti ke ne takimuʻa ʻi he tokonaki fakamatelie maʻa hono fāmilí pea ʻi hono akoʻi kinautolu fekauʻaki mo e ʻOtuá. ʻOku totonu ke ne hoko ʻo feilaulauʻi-kita ʻi heʻene ʻofa ki hono uaifí. ʻOku totonu ki he ngaahi husepānití mo e ngaahi uaifí ke nau feʻofaʻaki mo fefakaʻapaʻapaʻaki. Koeʻuhi ʻoku taʻehaohaoa ʻa e ngaahi husepānití mo e ngaahi uaifí kotoa, ko e ako ke fakamolemolé ko ha kī ia ki he fiefia ʻi he nofo malí.—Lau ʻa e ʻEfesō 4:31, 32; 5:22-25, 33; 1 Pita 3:7.
3. ʻOku totonu ke ke liʻaki ha nofo mali ʻoku ʻikai fiefia?
Kapau ʻokú mo hokosia ha ngaahi faingataʻa ʻi hoʻomo nofo malí, ko kimoua fakatouʻosi ʻoku totonu ke mo ngāue ke fefakafeangaiʻaki ʻi he ʻofa. (1 Kolinitō 13:4, 5) ʻOku ʻikai ke poupouʻi mai ʻe he Folofola ʻa e ʻOtuá ʻa e māvaé ko ha founga ia ke fakaleleiʻiʻaki ʻa e ngaahi palopalema ʻoku hoko lahi ʻi he nofo malí.—Lau ʻa e 1 Kolinitō 7:10-13.
4. Fānau, ko e hā ʻoku fiemaʻu ʻe he ʻOtuá maʻamoutolú?
ʻOku fiemaʻu ʻe Sihova ke mou fiefia. ʻOkú ne ʻoatu kiate kimoutolu ʻa e faleʻi lelei taha ki he founga ke mou fiefia ai ʻi hoʻomou talavoú. ʻOkú ne fiemaʻu mai ke mou maʻu ʻaonga mei he poto mo e taukei ʻa hoʻomou ongo mātuʻá. (Kolose 3:20) ʻOku toe fiemaʻu mai ʻe Sihova ke mou maʻu ʻa e fiefia ʻi hono fai ʻa e ngaahi meʻa maʻa homou Tokotaha-Fakatupú mo hono ʻAló.—Lau ʻa e Tangata Malanga 11:9–12:1; Mātiu 19:13-15; 21:15, 16.
5. Ngaahi mātuʻa, ʻe lava fēfē ke maʻu ʻe hoʻomou fānaú ʻa e fiefiá?
ʻOku totonu ke mou ngāue mālohi ke tokonaki ha meʻakai, nofoʻanga, mo ha vala maʻa hoʻomou fānaú. (1 Tīmote 5:8) Ka ke maʻu ʻe hoʻomou fānaú ʻa e fiefiá, ʻoku toe fiemaʻu ke mou akoʻi kinautolu ke nau ʻofa ki he ʻOtuá pea ke nau ako meiate ia. (ʻEfesō 6:4) Ko hoʻomou faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ʻi hono fakahāhā ʻa e ʻofa ki he ʻOtuá ʻe lava ke ne tākiekina lahi ʻa e loto ʻo hoʻomou kiʻi tamá. ʻI he taimi ʻoku fakatuʻunga ai hoʻomou fakahinohinó ʻi he Folofola ʻa e ʻOtuá, ʻe lava ai ʻo fakafuo ʻa e fakakaukau ʻa hoʻomou kiʻi tamá ʻi ha founga lelei.—Lau ʻa e Teutalōnome 6:4-7; Palōveepi 22:6.
ʻOku maʻu ʻaonga ʻa e fānaú ʻi he taimi ʻoku mou fakalototoʻaʻi mo fakaongoongoleleiʻi ai kinautolú. ʻOku toe fiemaʻu kiate kinautolu ʻa e fakatonutonu mo e akonekina. ʻOku hanga ʻe he ako peheé ʻo maluʻi kinautolu mei he tōʻonga ʻoku lava ke ne kaihaʻasia meiate kinautolu ʻa e fiefiá. (Palōveepi 22:15) Neongo ia, ʻoku totonu ke ʻoua ʻaupito naʻa hoko ʻa e akonekiná ʻo kakaha pe anga-fakamamahi.—Lau ʻa e Kolose 3:21.
ʻOku pulusi ʻe he Kau Fakamoʻoni ʻa Sihová ʻa e ngaahi tohi kuo hiki ʻo tautefito ke tokoniʻi ʻa e ngaahi mātuʻá mo e fānaú. ʻOku fakatuʻunga ʻa e ngaahi tohí ni ʻi he Tohi Tapú.—Lau ʻa e Saame 19:7, 11.