museebat kise te vi aa sakdi hai. bible dassdi hai: “tez daurran vala hamesha pehle darze te nahi aaunda. bahadar hamesha ladai vich jittda nahi, . . . har kise utte bura sama aaunda hai.” (updeshak di pothi 9:11, CL) ihna vich oh naujavan vi shamal han jinha ne museebta da samna keeta hai. ohna ne museebta da samna kive keeta? aao do misala te gaur kariye.

•  rebekah

•  cordell

 jado mai 14 saala di si, taa mere mummy-daddy da talaak ho gaya.

 mai apne aap nu kehndi si ki mere mummy-daddy da talaak nahi ho sakda. mere daddy bas kujh same layi ikkale rehna chahunde han. oh mere mummy ji nu pyaar karde han. oh ohna nu chhadd ke nahi ja sakde. oh mainu kive chhadd sakde?

 mere layi is bare kise naal vi gall karni aukhi si. mai is bare sochna vi nahi si chahundi. os same mainu ehsas nahi hoya, par mai gusse vich rehndi si. mai pareshan rehndi si atey mainu neend nahi si aaundi.

 jado mai 19 saala di si, taa mere mummy ji di cancer naal maut ho gayi. oh meri pakki saheli si.

 mummy-daddy de talaak karke mai pehla hi bahut dukhi si, par mummy ji di maut naal taa mai poori tarha hi tutt gayi. mai aje vi is dukh vicho bahar nahi aa saki. hun taa mainu bilkul vi neend nahi aaundi atey mai pareshan rehndi ha.

 par kujh galla ne meri madad keeti. misal layi, kahauta 18:1 vich sanu khabardar keeta gaya hai ki asi apne aap nu doojya to alag na kariye. mai is salah nu laagu karan di koshish keeti hai.

 nale yahovah di gavah hon de nate, mai bible-aadhaarit prakashan parhan di koshish kardi ha. ihna to mainu bahut hausla milda hai. jado mere mummy-daddy da talaak hoya, taa mainu naujavana de savaal​—vivharak javab (angrezi) naa di kitab to hausla milya. khaas karke is kitab de bhaag do de ik adhiaye ne meri kaafi madad keeti jis da visha hai, “kee mai ajehe parivar vich khush reh sakda hai jis vich ikkali maa hove ja ikkala pita hove?”

 apnia chintava naal sijhan layi mainu matti 6:25-34 to madad mili. eh mere manpasand havalya vicho ik hai. is di aayat 27 vich yisu ne puchhya: “tuhade vicho kaun chinta kar ke apni zindagi da ik pal vi vadha sakda hai?”

 museebat kise te vi aa sakdi hai, par mai apne mummy ji di misal to sikhya ki asi jis tareeke naal museebta da samna karde ha, oh gall bahut maene rakhdi hai. ohna ne kaafi mushkla da samna keeta, jive talaak atey fir cancer vargi jaanleva bimari da. par ihna mushkla dauran ohna ne sahi nazria rakhya atey ant tak rab te apni nehcha barkarar rakhi. ohna ne yahovah bare mainu jo sikhaya, mai oh kade nahi bhullangi.

 zara socho: museebta da samna karan vich bible atey bible-aadhaarit prakashan parhan karke tuhadi kive madad ho sakdi hai?​—zaboora di pothi 94:19.

 jado mai 17 saala da si, odo mere daddy ji di maut ho gayi. eh meri zindagi da sabh to vadda dukh si. mai poori tarha tutt chukka si.

 mainu yakeen nahi si hunda ki oh hun is duniya vich nahi han. laggda si ki kafan vich mere daddy ji nahi, koi hor hai. mai apne aap nu keha, ‘oh kall utth jaange.’ meri taa duniya hi ujarr gayi si.

 mai atey mera poora parivar yahovah de gavah ha. daddy ji di maut vele saddi mandli de bhena-bhrava ne saddi bahut ziada madad keeti. ohna ne sadde layi khana banaya, sadde naal sadde ghar rahe atey ohna ne sadda khayal rakhya. oh lambe same tak idda karde rahe. ihna galla karke mera bharosa vadhya ki yahovah de gavah hi sache masihi han.​—yuhanna 13:35.

 2 kurinthiya 4:17, 18 de havale to mainu bahut hausla milya. ithe likhya: “saddiya museebta thode same layi han atey mamooli han, par sanu jo mehma milegi oh ihna to kite ziada shaandar hovegi atey hamesha rahegi; atey asi apni nazar disan valiya cheeza utte nahi, sago na disan valiya cheeza utte laayi rakhde ha. kyoki disan valiya cheeza thode same layi han, par na disan valiya cheeza hamesha rehngiya.”

 18vi aayat to mainu bahut hausla milya. mere daddy ji ne apni maut to pehla jo dukh jhalle, oh thode same layi san, par rab ne jis sunehre bhavikh da vaada keeta hai, oh hamesha layi hai. daddy di maut karke mainu eh sochan da mauka milya ki mai apni zindagi vich kee kar reha ha atey apne teechya nu haasal karan layi mainu kehrriya tabdeeliya karan di lorr hai.

 zara socho: je tuhade te koi museebat aa jave, taa zindagi vich rakhe teechya te dobara soch-vichaar vich tuhadi kive madad ho sakdi hai?​—1 yuhanna 2:17.