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Nemeka “tshidi Nzambi musuike kaba kamue”

Nemeka “tshidi Nzambi musuike kaba kamue”

“Muntu kapanduludi tshidi Nzambi musuike kaba kamue to.”​—MÂKO 10:9.

MISAMBU: 131, 132

1, 2. Ebelu 13:4 udi ne bua kutusaka bua kuenza tshinyi?

UTU musue kunemeka Yehowa anyi? Bushuwa, bidi nanku! Mmukumbane bua wewe kumuneka, ne mmulaye bua kukunemeka pebe. (1 Sam. 2:30; Nsu. 3:9; Buak. 4:11) Mmusue bua unemeke kabidi bantu bakuabu bu mudi bena mbulamatadi. (Lomo 12:10; 13:7) Kadi kudi tshintu tshiudi nangananga ne bua kunemeka. Tshintu atshi ndibaka.

2 Mupostolo Paulo wakafunda ne: “Dibaka dinemekibue munkatshi mua bantu bonso, ne bulalu bua dibaka kabunyanguki.” (Eb. 13:4) Paulo kavua ufila mubelu wa mu lupitapita to. Kadi uvua uwupesha bena Kristo, ulomba muntu yonso bua kunemeka dibaka, kudiangata ne mushinga wa bungi. Ke muutu pebe umona dibaka anyi? Biwikala mu dibaka, utu umona diebe nanku anyi?

3. Mmubelu kayi wa mushinga uvua Yezu mufile bua dibaka? (Tangila tshimfuanyi tshia ntuadijilu tshia tshiena-bualu.)

3 Wewe unemeka dibaka, udi mubuele mu mulongo wa bantu ba kuidikija. Yezu uvua unemeka dibaka. Pakamuebejabu kudi Bafalese bua dishipa dia dibaka, wakamba tshivua Nzambi muambe bua dibaka dia kumpala ne: “Bua bualu ebu mulume neashiye tatuende ne mamuende, bubidi buabu nebalue mubidi umue.” Wakamba kabidi ne: “Muntu kapanduludi tshidi Nzambi musuike kaba kamue to.”​—Bala Mâko 10:2-12; Gen. 2:24.

4. Yehowa uvua muele mukenji kayi bua dibaka?

4 Nunku Yezu uvua witaba ne: Nzambi ke uvua mufuke dibaka ne uvua mudifuke bua dishale kashidi. Nzambi kavua muambile Adama ne Eva bua bashipe dibaka bua kadikadiku kabidi to. Mukenji uvuaye muele bua dibaka dia mu Edene uvua wa ne: muntu ikale ne mukaji umue, “bubidi buabu” balamatangane bua kusomba pamue bua kashidi.

DIBAKA DIAKANJI KUSHINTULUKA BUA AMUE MALU

5. Lufu ludi luenzela dibaka tshinyi?

5 Nansha nanku udi mumanye ne: mpekatu wa Adama mmukebeshe malu. Bumue bua ku malu au ndufu ludi lulenga dibaka. Tudi tumona bualu ebu kupitshila ku tshivua Paulo mufunde pavuaye umvuija ne: bena Kristo kabatshiena muinshi mua Mikenji ya Mose to. Wakaleja ne: lufu ludi luimanyika dibaka, ne muena dibaka udi ushala ne muoyo udi mua kulua kubuela kabidi mu dikuabu.​—Lomo 7:1-3.

6. Mmunyi muvua Mikenji ya Mose ileja mudi Nzambi umona dibaka?

6 Mikenji ivua Nzambi mupeshe bena Isalele ivua mileje malu adi atangila dibaka ne mu katoba. Ivua ilekela bena Isalele basela bakaji ba bungi. Tshilele etshi tshivuaku kumpala mene kua Nzambi kubapesha Mikenji. Kadi tshiselasela etshi tshivua ne mikenji, ikandika dikengeshangana. Tshilejilu, muena Isalele yeye musele mupika, pashishe mulue kusela mukaji muibidi, kavua mua kukepesha bungi bua biakudia bia mukaji wa kumpala, bua bilamba biende, ne malu avuaye ne bua kumuenzela bu mukaji musela to. Nzambi uvua umulomba bua amukube ne amutabalele. (Ekes. 21:9, 10) Tuetu katuena muinshi mua Mikenji ya Mose to, kadi itshidi ituambuluisha bua kumona mudi Yehowa utabalela dibaka. Bua bualu ebu, katuenaku mua kuangata dibaka ne mushinga anyi?

7, 8. (a) Bilondeshile Dutelonome 24:1, mikenji ivua yamba tshinyi bua dishipa dibaka? (b) Mmunyi mutu Yehowa umona dishipa dibaka?

7 Kadi Mikenji ivua yamba tshinyi bua dishipa dibaka? Nzambi uvua anu wangata dibaka ne mushinga wa bungi; kadi uvua witaba bua badishipe bua kukosesha nkutshi muadi. (Bala Dutelonome 24:1.) Muena Isalele uvua mua kushipa dibaka ne mukajende yeye ‘mumusangane ne bualu bubi.’ Mikenji kayivua miumvuije tshivua “bualu bubi” abu to. Buvua mua kuikala bualu bua bundu anyi bubi menemene, kabuyi tshilema tshia tshikese to. (Dut. 23:14) Bia dibungama, mu matuku a Yezu bena Yuda ba bungi bavua bashipa mabaka “bua bualu kayi buonso.” (Mat. 19:3) Tuetu katuena basue kuenza malu mushindu eu to.

8 Muprofete Malaki wakaleja mudi Nzambi umona dishipa dibaka. Tshikondo atshi kuvua tshilele tshia muntu wela ‘mukaji wa ku bunsongalume buende’ mâyi ku makasa, ushipa nende dibaka pamuapa bua asele mukaji utshivua nsongakaji muikale mumpangano. Malaki wakafunda bua mmuenenu wa Nzambi ne: “Ndi nkina dishipa dia dibaka.” (Mal. 2:14-16) Bualu abu buvua bupetangana ne tshidi Dîyi dia Nzambi diamba bua dibaka dia kumpala tshia ne: “[Mulume] nealamate mukajende, ne nebalue mubidi umue.” (Gen. 2:24) Yezu uvua pende ne mmuenenu wa Tatu wende eu bua dibaka, kuambaye ne: “Muntu kapanduludi tshidi Nzambi musuike kaba kamue to.”​—Mat. 19:6.

BUALU BUMUEPELE BUDI DIBAKA MUA KUFUILA

9. Mmunyi mutudi mua kumvua mêyi a Yezu adi mu Mâko 10:11, 12?

9 Muntu udi mua kudiebeja ne: ‘Kudiku bualu budi muena Kristo mua kushipela dibaka ne kubuela mu dikuabu anyi?’ Yezu wakaleja mmuenenu wende bua dishipa dibaka, wamba ne: “Muntu yonso udi ushipa dibaka ne mukajende ne usela mukaji mukuabu, udi wenda masandi, ne udi umuenzela bibi, ne bikala mukaji yeye mumane kushipa dibaka ne bayende, udi usedibua kudi mulume mukuabu, yeye udi wenda masandi.” (Mâko 10:11, 12; Luka 16:18) Nunku mbiumvuike bimpe ne: Yezu uvua unemeka dibaka ne uvua musue bua bantu bakuabu badinemeke pabu. Muntu uvua ulambakena ku bualu bukuabu bua kushipa dibaka ne muena dibaka nende wa lulamatu ne ubuela mu dibaka dikuabu, uvua wenda masandi. Bidi nanku bualu padi muntu ushipa dibaka ne muena dibaka nende tshianana kena udimanyika to. Ku mêsu kua Nzambi bubidi buabu nebikale anu batshidi “mubidi umue.” Yezu wakamba kabidi ne: muntu udi ushipa dibaka ne mukajende udi kayi ne bualu, udi mua kumuendeshisha masandi. Mushindu kayi? Tshikondo atshi, pavua mulume ushipa dibaka, mukaji uvua mua kudimona muenzejibue bua kusedibua kabidi bua kupeta muntu uvua mua kuambula bujitu buende. Disedibua kabidi dia nunku divua mumue ne kuenda masandi.

10. Mbua bualu kayi budi muena Kristo mua kushipela dibaka ne kudimona ne budikadidi bua kubuela mu dibaka dikuabu?

10 Yezu wakaleja bualu buvua dibaka mua kufuila, wamba ne: “Ndi nnuambila ne: Muntu yonso udi ushipa dibaka ne mukajende kabuyi bua bualu bua masandi [mu tshiena Greke, porneia] ne usela mukaji mukuabu udi wenda masandi.” (Mat. 19:9) Wakaleja bualu bumue bumue ebu mu Muyuki wa pa mukuna. (Mat. 5:31, 32) Yezu wakakula bua “masandi” misangu yonso ibidi eyi. Muaku eu udi ukongoloja mpekatu ya masandi mienza kudi bantu badi kabayi baselangane budi mudi: masandi a basela, bundumba, disangila dia bantu badi kabayi baselangane, disangila dia mulume ne mulume anyi mukaji ne mukaji, ne disangila ne nyama. Tshilejilu, mulume yeye muende masandi, mukajende udi mua kushipa dibaka anyi kubenga kudishipa. Yeye mudishipe, ku mêsu kua Nzambi dibaka ndifue.

11. Bua tshinyi muena Kristo udi mua kubenga bua kushipa dibaka nansha Bible mumuanyishile?

11 Mu bulelela, Yezu kavua muambe ne: muntu yeye muende masandi (porneia) muena dibaka nende udi ne bua kushipa dibaka musangu umue to. Tshilejilu, mukaji udi mua kumona ne: bidi bikengela kushala mu dibaka nansha bayende muende masandi. Udi mua kuikala utshidi mumunange; udi mua kuikala ujinga kumufuila luse ne kueleshangana nende diboko bua kulengeja dibaka diabu. Mu kuamba kuimpe, yeye mushipe dibaka kadi kayi musedibue kabidi, udi mua kutuilangana ne ntatu. Nnganyi wamukumbajila majinga ende a ku mubidi ne a disangila? Kadi bua bunkaya? Kudi bana ba kutabalela anyi? Dishipa dibaka neditatshishe bua kubakolesha mu bulelela anyi? (1 Kol. 7:14) Mbiumvuike bimpe ne: padi dibaka difua, mulume anyi mukaji udi kayi ne bualu udi mua kutuilangana ne ntatu mikole.

12, 13. (a) Ntshinyi tshivua tshienzeke mu dibaka dia Hoshea? (b) Bua tshinyi Hoshea wakapingaja Gomê? Bualu ebu budi bulongesha badi mu mabaka lelu tshinyi?

12 Bualu buvua bufikile muprofete Hoshea budi butokesha tshilumbu etshi bimpe. Nzambi wakamuambila bua kuangata mukaji (Gomê) uvua ne bua kulua “mukaji wa ndumba ne [kulela] bana ba mu bundumba.” Gomê ‘wakimita, kulelelaye [Hoshea] muana wa balume.’ (Hosh. 1:2, 3) Pashishe, wakalela muana wa bakaji ne wa balume, pamuapa bonso ba mu masandi. Nansha muvua Gomê muende masandi njila ne njila, Hoshea wakashala anu nende mu dibaka. Ndekelu wa bionso, wakalekela Hoshea, kuluaye mupika. Nansha nanku, Hoshea wakamukuula. (Hosh. 3:1, 2) Yehowa uvua muenze mudimu ne Hoshea bua kuleja muvuaye mufuile bena Isalele bavua benda masandi luse njila ne njila. Bidi mua kutulongesha tshinyi?

13 Mu dibaka dia bena Kristo, muntu umue yeye muende masandi, dipangadika didi mu bianza bia udi kayi muende au. Yezu wakamba ne: udi kayi muende au mmupete bualu bua kushipela dibaka ne mmupete budikadidi bua kubuela mu dikuabu. Ku lukuabu luseke, yeye eu udi mua kufuila muena dibaka nende luse. Kabiakuikala bibi to. Nansha Hoshea uvua mupingaje Gomê kumbelu. Pavua Gomê mupingane kudi Hoshea, kavua kabidi ne bua kusangila ne mulume mukuabu to. Kuvua kupita tshikondo kampanda tshivua Hoshea kayi ‘mulale’ anyi musangile ne Gomê to. (Hosh. 3:3, dim.) Kadi panyima pa matuku, Hoshea uvua ne bua kuikala kabidi mutuadije kusangila nende, bileja muvua Nzambi musue bua kupingaja tshisamba tshiende kudiye ne kupingajilula natshi malanda. (Hosh. 1:11; 3:3-5) Ntshinyi tshidi bualu ebu bulongesha badi mu mabaka lelu? Muena dibaka udi kayi muende masandi yeye muangate dipangadika dia kubenga kushipa dibaka, usangila kabidi ne muena dibaka nende, mmuleje ne: mmumufuile luse. (1 Kol. 7:3, 5) Yeye mumane kusangila nende nunku, dîba adi kena kabidi ne bualu bua kushipela dibaka to. Mpindieu bubidi buabu badi ne bua kueleshangana diboko bua kumona dibaka mudi Nzambi udimona.

NEMEKA DIBAKA NANSHA DIODI NE BILUMBU

14. Bilondeshile 1 Kolinto 7:10, 11, ntshinyi tshidi mua kuenzeka mu dibaka?

14 Bena Kristo bonso badi ne bua kudienzeja bua kunemeka dibaka anu mudi Yezu ne Yehowa benza. Kadi bua dipanga bupuangane, bamue badi mua kupanga kunemeka dibaka. (Lomo 7:18-23) Ke bualu kayi kabiena mua kutukemesha bua muvua bamue bena Kristo ba mu bidimu lukama bia kumpala ne bilumbu mu mabaka to. Paulo wakafunda ne: “Mukaji kumbuki kudi bayende” to; kadi mu imue nsombelu biakenzeka.​—Bala 1 Kolinto 7:10, 11.

Ntshinyi tshiudi mua kuenza bua kulama dibaka nansha diodi ne bilumbu? (Tangila tshikoso tshia 15)

15, 16. (a) Nansha tuetu ne bilumbu mu dibaka, tuikale ne tshipatshila kayi? Bua tshinyi? (b) Muena dibaka netu yeye kayi muena kuitabuja, mmunyi mutudi mua kutumikila bualu ebu?

15 Paulo kavua mumvuije tshivua tshikebeshe diabulukangana adi to. Pamuapa kabivua ne: mbualu mulume uvua muende masandi, bipeteshe mukajende bualu bua kushipela dibaka ne kubuela mu dikuabu to. Paulo wakafunda ne: mukaji uvua umbuka kudi bayende uvua ne bua ‘kusomba kayi musedibue anyi kulengejangana ne bayende.’ Nunku ku mêsu kua Nzambi, bubidi buabu batshivua anu mu tshisuikidi tshimue tshia dibaka. Paulo wakababela ne: nansha bilumbu bikale bia mushindu kayi, kuoku kakuyi bualu bua masandi, tshipatshila tshiabu tshikale tshia kulengejangana. Bubidi buabu bavua ne bua kuya kudi bakulu bua babapeshe mibelu ya mu Bible. Bakulu bavua ne bua kubapesha mibelu ya mu Bible kabayi batua ku tshia muntu to.

16 Malu avua mua kutamba kukola pavua muena dibaka umue muikale muena kuitabuja udi uditatshisha bua kutumikila mikenji ya Nzambi. Padiku bilumbu, diabulukangana ke didi dibijikija anyi? Anu bu mutukadi bamone, Bible udi wamba ne: masandi ke bualu budi muntu mua kushipela dibaka, kadi kena uleja nsombelu mishilashilangane idi mua kufikisha ku diabulukangana to. Paulo wakafunda ne: “Bikala mukaji ne mulume udi kayi muena kuitabuja, kadi mulume au muanyishe bua kusomba nende, mukaji kalekedi bayende to.” (1 Kol. 7:12, 13) Bualu ebu budi bututangila petu lelu.

17, 18. Bua tshinyi bamue bena Kristo mbashale mu mabaka adi ne bilumbu?

17 Mu kuamba kuimpe, kudi misangu ikadibi bimueneke ne: “mulume udi kayi muena kuitabuja” kena ‘wanyisha bua kusomba’ ne mukajende udi muena kuitabuja. Mulume udi mua kuikala umututa bibi, mukaji mufuane kumona ne: mubidi wende anyi muoyo wende bidi mu njiwu. Udi mua kuikala ubenga kuambula bujitu buende ne bua dîku anyi uteka malanda ende ne Nzambi mu njiwu mibi menemene. Bua malu a nunku, mukaji muena Kristo udi mua kumona ne: nansha bayende mua kuamba tshinyi, ki ‘mmuanyishe bua kusomba’ nende to, ne bidi bikengela kuabulukangana. Kadi bena Kristo bakuabu badi pabu mu ntatu ya nunku ki mbabulukangane bobu to; mbananukile ne mbaditatshishe bua kueleshangana diboko bua kulengeja malu. Bua tshinyi?

18 Bantu bobu babulukangane, bubidi buabu batshidi anu baselangane. Anu bu mutukadi baleje, bobu basombe eu kuende eu kuende, yonso wa kudibu udi mua kutuilangana ne ntatu. Mupostolo Paulo wakamba bualu bukuabu budibu ne bua kushadila pamue. Wakafunda ne: “Bualu mulume udi kayi muena kuitabuja mmujidila bua mukajende, ne mukaji udi kayi muena kuitabuja mmujidila bua muanetu wa balume; tshianana, bana benu balela bavua mua kuikala kabayi bakezuke, kadi mpindieu mba tshijila.” (1 Kol. 7:14) Bena Kristo ba lulamatu ba bungi mbashale ne bena dibaka nabu badi kabayi bena kuitabuja nansha mu nsombelu ya bamona kasuba. Badi mua kujadika ne: kuenza nunku kuvua kukumbane mu ngumvuilu kampanda wa pa buende bualu bena dibaka nabu mbalue bena Kristo balelela.​—Bala 1 Kolinto 7:16; 1 Pet. 3:1, 2.

19. Bua tshinyi mu tshisumbu tshia bena Kristo mudi mabaka a bungi adi ne disanka?

19 Yezu wakakula bua dishipa dia dibaka, mupostolo Paulo muenzeja ku bukole bua nyuma wakafila pende mibelu idi itangila diabulukangana. Buonso buabu bavua basue ne: batendeledi ba Nzambi banemeke dibaka. Lelu pa buloba bujima, bisumbu bia bena Kristo bidi ne mabaka a disanka. Mu tshisumbu tshienu udi mua kumona balume ba bungi ne bakaji babu badi ne disanka mu mabaka abu. Bana betu aba mbalume ba lulamatu badi banange bakaji babu, ne bakaji babu mbakaji badi balamate babayabu ne baleja mudibu babanange, buonso buabu baleja ne: dibaka didi mua kunemekibua. Bidi bitusankisha bua mudi bantu miliyo ne miliyo baleja mudi mêyi a Nzambi aa malelela: “Bua bualu ebu mulume neashiye tatuende ne mamuende, nealamate mukajende, ne bubidi buabu nebikale mubidi umue.”​—Ef. 5:31, 33.