naujavanon ke saval
yaar-dost
kya mujhe dosti ka daayra badhana chahiye?
kuch hi logon se dosti banaye rakhna hamein achha lag sakta hai, magar yah hamesha faaydemand nahin. kyon?
dosti ya pyar?—bhaag 2: mere message se use kya ishara mil raha hai?
kahin us ladki ko aisa to nahin lag raha ki aap use sirf dost hi nahin samajhte balki use chahte bhi hain? to zara in sujhavon par gaur keejiye.
mere munh se hamesha galat baat kyon nikalti hai?
kin salahon ko maanne se aap soch-samajhkar baat kar paayenge?
jab log mere baare mein gapshap karte hain, tab main kya karoon?
aap aisi afvahon ke baare mein kya kar sakte hain jinse aapko koi nuksan na ho ya aapka naam kharab na ho?
kya ishkbazee bas mazak hai?
ishkbazee ka kya matlab hai? kuch log yah kyon karte hain? iske kya anjam ho sakte hain?
mujhe message karne ke baare mein kya pata hona chahiye?
message ka apki dosti aur aapki izzat par asar pad sakta hai. jaaniye kaise.
parivar
mammi-paapa se unke niyamon ke baare mein kaise baat karoon?
jaaniye ki aap kaise aadar ke saath mammi-paapa se baat kar sakte hain aur iske achhe nateeje aapko hairan kar deinge.
mammi-paapa ka bharosa kaise jeetoon?
teen aasan kaam jinhein karne se aapko zyada aazadi milegi.
mammi-paapa mujhe mauj-masti kyon nahin karne dete?
kya mujhe chori-chhipe ghar se nikalkar mauj-masti karni chahiye ya kya mujhe apne mammi-paapa ke saath imandar rehna chahiye?
agar mere paapa ya mammi beemar hon?
aap akele aise naujavan nahin jo is tarah ke haalaat ka saamna kar rahe hain. jaaniye ki do naujavanon ne is tarah ke haalaat ka saamna kaise kiya.
mere mammi-paapa talak le rahe hain, main kya karoon?
aap apne dard, gusse aur kadvahat ko kaise door kar sakte hain?
apne bhaai ya behen ke saath shaanti kyon banaye rakhoon?
aap unse pyar karte hain magar kabhi-kabhi woh aapko chidh dila sakte hain.
kya unhein har baat batana zaroori hai?
kya aapko lagta hai ki aapke mammi-paapa aapki zindagi mein kuch zyada hi dakhal de rahe hain? agar haan, to aap kya kar sakte hain?
kya main ghar chhodne ke liye taiyar hoon?
yah zaroori faisla lene se pehle is lekh mein diye savalon par dhyan deejiye.
Technology
video games ka hum par kya asar hota hai?
inhein khelne ke faayde bhi hain aur nuksan bhi. ho sakta hai inke baare mein aapne kabhi na socha ho.
mujhe message karne ke baare mein kya pata hona chahiye?
message ka apki dosti aur aapki izzat par asar pad sakta hai. jaaniye kaise.
online photo share karne ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?
apni manpasand photo doston aur parivarvalon ke saath share karne ka aasan tareeka hai unhein online post karna. lekin iske kuch khatre bhi hain.
sexting ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?
kya aap par sexting ka dabav aata hai? iske kya anjam hote hain? kya yah flirtkarne ke liye kiya jaata hai aur isse koi nuksan nahin hota?
school-college
kya aapko ghar se padhai karna mushkil lagta hai?
bahot se bachche aaj apni padhai ghar se kar rahe hain. ghar se achhi tarah padhai karne ke 5 sujhav.
tab kya agar mujhe school jaana bilkul pasand nahin hai?
kya aapko apne teacher se padhne mein maza nahin aata? kya aapko kuch vishyon ke baare mein padhna samay ki barbadi lagta hai?
kya doosri bhasha seekhne ka koi faayda hai?
ismein kya mushkilein aayengi? aur kya faayda hoga?
srishti ya vikasvad—bhaag 1: parmeshvar par kyon vishvas karein?
kya aap aur bhi yakeen ke saath doosron ko samjhana chahte hain ki aap kyon parmeshvar ko maante hain? agar koi aapke vishvas par saval karta hai to use kaise javab dena chahiye, is baare mein kuch sujhav jaaniye.
srishti ya vikasvad?—bhaag 2: vikasvad par saval kyon karein?
saval karne ke do buniyadi kaaran.
srishti ya vikasvad?—bhaag 3: srishti par yakeen kyon karein?
kya srishti par yakeen karne ke liye aapko vigyan ke khilaf hona hoga?
srishti ya vikasvad?—bhaag 4: main doosron ko kaise samjha sakta hoon ki main srishti par kyon vishvas karta hoon?
is duniya ko banaya gaya hai, yah samjhane ke liye aapko vigyan ka jaankar hone ki zaroorat nahin. bible mein saral shabdon mein di gayi daleelein istemal keejiye.
Life Skills
main kaise apni bhaavnaon par kaaboo paaun?
bhaavnaon mein utaar -chadhav aana aam hai, lekin kai javan pareshan ho jaate hain. khushi ki baat hai ki aap apni bhaavnaon ko samajh sakte hain aur un par kaaboo paana seekh sakte hain.
main hamesha yah sochna kaise chhod sakta hoon ki mere saath bura hoga?
is lekh se aap jaan paayenge ki aap sahi soch kaise apna sakte hain.
chintaon ka saamna kaise karoon?
chheh baaton par dhyan deejiye aur jaaniye ki chintayen nuksan dene ke bajay kab faaydemand ho sakti hain.
koi museebat aa pade, to uska saamna kaise karoon?
do naujavan batate hain ki kis baat se unhein museebat ka saamna karne mein madad mili.
agar kuch galat karne ka man kare, to khud ko kaise rokoon?
teen zaroori kadam uthayen aur galat ichhaon par kaaboo paayen.
samay ka sahi istemal kaise karein?
is lekh mein diye paanch sujhav apnane se aap apna keemti samay barbad nahin kareinge.
taal-matol karne ki aadat se kaise chhutkara paaun?
taal-matol karne ki aadat se chhutkara paane ke kuch sujhavon ke baare mein padhiye.
fizool kharch karne se kaise bachoon?
kya kabhi aisa hua hai ki aap bas kuch dekhne ke liye ek dukan mein gaye aur aapne ek mahangi cheez khareed li. agar haan, to is lekh se aapko zaroor madad milegi.
galtiyaan hone par main kya karoon?
hum sab galtiyaan karte hain lekin har koi inse sabak nahin seekhta.
imandar kyon rahein?
kya beimani karnevalon ko faayda nahin hota?
kya doosri bhasha seekhne ka koi faayda hai?
ismein kya mushkilein aayengi? aur kya faayda hoga?
kya main ghar chhodne ke liye taiyar hoon?
yah zaroori faisla lene se pehle is lekh mein diye savalon par dhyan deejiye.
mere munh se hamesha galat baat kyon nikalti hai?
kin salahon ko maanne se aap soch-samajhkar baat kar paayenge?
jab log mere baare mein gapshap karte hain, tab main kya karoon?
aap aisi afvahon ke baare mein kya kar sakte hain jinse aapko koi nuksan na ho ya aapka naam kharab na ho?
pehchan
imandar kyon rahein?
kya beimani karnevalon ko faayda nahin hota?
kya main ek perfectionist hoon?
kisi kaam ko achhi tarah karne mein aur jo kaam asambhv hai uske peechhe bhaagne mein kya fark hai?
main ek achha aadarsh kaise chun sakta hoon?
ek aadarsh pareshaniyon se bachne, lakshya haasil karne aur zindagi mein kaamyab hone mein madad kar sakta hai. lekin aap kiski misal par chaleinge?
galtiyaan hone par main kya karoon?
hum sab galtiyaan karte hain lekin har koi inse sabak nahin seekhta.
agar kuch galat karne ka man kare, to khud ko kaise rokoon?
teen zaroori kadam uthayen aur galat ichhaon par kaaboo paayen.
kya ye kapde mere liye sahi hain?
jaaniye ki aap fashion ko lekar teen badi galtiyaan karne se kaise bach sakte hain.
Bad Habits
gandi tasveerein dekhna kyon galat hai?
gandi tasveerein dekhna kyon galat hai?
tab kya, jab mujhe pornography ki lat lag jaaye?
bible aapko yah samajhne mein madad de sakti hai ki pornography hai kya.
agar kuch galat karne ka man kare, to khud ko kaise rokoon?
teen zaroori kadam uthayen aur galat ichhaon par kaaboo paayen.
taal-matol karne ki aadat se kaise chhutkara paaun?
taal-matol karne ki aadat se chhutkara paane ke kuch sujhavon ke baare mein padhiye.
Free Time
kya isse koi fark padta hai ki main kaisa sangeet sunta hoon?
sangeet mein dam hota hai, isliye jaaniye ki aap kaise buddhimani se sangeet chun sakte hain.
video games ka hum par kya asar hota hai?
inhein khelne ke faayde bhi hain aur nuksan bhi. ho sakta hai inke baare mein aapne kabhi na socha ho.
khel-kood ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?
jaanchiye ki aap kya khel khelte hain, kis tarah khelte hain aur kitna khelte hain.
samay ka sahi istemal kaise karein?
is lekh mein diye paanch sujhav apnane se aap apna keemti samay barbad nahin kareinge.
bore hone par main kya karoon?
phone,tablet vagairah ka istemal karein ya sahi nazariya rakhein?
kya jaadoo-tone mein koi burai hai?
bahot-se logon ko jyotish-vidya, jaadoo-tone aur tantra-mantra mein dilchaspi hoti hai. lekin kya aisa karna khatarnak ho sakta hai?
mammi-paapa mujhe mauj-masti kyon nahin karne dete?
kya mujhe chori-chhipe ghar se nikalkar mauj-masti karni chahiye ya kya mujhe apne mammi-paapa ke saath imandar rehna chahiye?
sex
laingik hamle ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?—bhaag 1: ehtiyat baratna
teen sujhavon ko maanne se aap laingik hamle ke shikar hone se bach sakte hain.
laingik hamle ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?—bhaag 2: isse ubarna
laingik durvyavahar ke shikar log kaise isse ubar paaye, unhin ki kahi baat padhiye.
kya mukh maithun (oral sex) sach mein sex hai?
kya ek ladki mukh maithun se garbhvati ho sakti hai?
kya samlaingikta galat hai?
kya bible yah sikhati hai ki samlaingik log bure hote hain? agar ek maseehi apne hi ling ke vyakti ki taraf aakarshit hota hai, to kya woh parmeshvar ko khush kar paayega?
main apne hi ling ke vyakti ki taraf aakarshit hoon, kya iska matlab main samlaingik hoon?
kya apne hi ling ke vyakti ki taraf aakarshit hona galat hai?
kya mujhe kunvare rehne ki shapath leni chahiye?
kya is tarah ki shapath shaadi se pehle sex na karne mein aapki madad karegi?
sexting ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?
kya aap par sexting ka dabav aata hai? iske kya anjam hote hain? kya yah flirtkarne ke liye kiya jaata hai aur isse koi nuksan nahin hota?
gandi tasveerein dekhna kyon galat hai?
gandi tasveerein dekhna kyon galat hai?
tab kya, jab mujhe pornography ki lat lag jaaye?
bible aapko yah samajhne mein madad de sakti hai ki pornography hai kya.
agar kuch galat karne ka man kare, to khud ko kaise rokoon?
teen zaroori kadam uthayen aur galat ichhaon par kaaboo paayen.
dating
kya ishkbazee bas mazak hai?
ishkbazee ka kya matlab hai? kuch log yah kyon karte hain? iske kya anjam ho sakte hain?
dosti ya pyar?—bhaag 1: uske message se mujhe kya ishara mil raha hai?
kuch sujhavon ki madad se aap jaan sakte hain ki saamnevala aapko sirf ek dost samajhta hai ya usse zyada.
dosti ya pyar?—bhaag 2: mere message se use kya ishara mil raha hai?
kahin us ladki ko aisa to nahin lag raha ki aap use sirf dost hi nahin samajhte balki use chahte bhi hain? to zara in sujhavon par gaur keejiye.
main breakup ka dard kaise door kar sakta hoon?
breakup ka dard door karke zindagi mein aage badhna seekhiye.
Physical Health
main jaise-jaise bada ho raha hoon, yah mujhe kya hone laga hai?
jaaniye ki aapmein kaun-se badlav honge aur aap unka saamna kaise kar sakte hain.
mujhe sharab ke baare mein kya pata hona chahiye?
jaaniye ki aap kaise in sabse bach sakte hain: police ya kort-kachahri ke chakkar, aapki badnami, laingik hamle, sharab ki lat lagna aur maut.
main achhi nind kaise le sakta hoon?
saat aasan tareeke jo raat mein achhi nind lene mein aapki madad kareinge.
main kasrat karne ka man kaise banaun?
jaaniye ki sehatmand rehne ke alava kasrat karne ke aur kya-kya faayde hain.
main kya khaaun aur kya nahin?
agar hum javani mein paushtik cheezen khaane ki aadat na daalein to shaayad bade hone par bhi un cheezen ko khaane ka hamara man na kare. isliye zaroori hai ki hum abhi se khaane-peene ki achhi aadat daalein.
vazan ghatane ke liye main kya karoon?
yah mat sochiye ki aap kya khaayenge aur kya nahin balki yah sochiye ki aap achhi sehat kaise banaye rakh sakte hain.
Emotional Health
main kaise apni bhaavnaon par kaaboo paaun?
bhaavnaon mein utaar -chadhav aana aam hai, lekin kai javan pareshan ho jaate hain. khushi ki baat hai ki aap apni bhaavnaon ko samajh sakte hain aur un par kaaboo paana seekh sakte hain.
main hamesha yah sochna kaise chhod sakta hoon ki mere saath bura hoga?
is lekh se aap jaan paayenge ki aap sahi soch kaise apna sakte hain.
main nirasha ka saamna kaise karoon?
yahaan batayi tarkeebein apnane se aap gehri nirasha se ubar sakte hain.
chintaon ka saamna kaise karoon?
chheh baaton par dhyan deejiye aur jaaniye ki chintayen nuksan dene ke bajay kab faaydemand ho sakti hain.
kya main ek perfectionist hoon?
kisi kaam ko achhi tarah karne mein aur jo kaam asambhv hai uske peechhe bhaagne mein kya fark hai?
koi museebat aa pade, to uska saamna kaise karoon?
do naujavan batate hain ki kis baat se unhein museebat ka saamna karne mein madad mili.
main jaise-jaise bada ho raha hoon, yah mujhe kya hone laga hai?
jaaniye ki aapmein kaun-se badlav honge aur aap unka saamna kaise kar sakte hain.
laingik hamle ke baare mein mujhe kya pata hona chahiye?—bhaag 2: isse ubarna
laingik durvyavahar ke shikar log kaise isse ubar paaye, unhin ki kahi baat padhiye.
parmeshvar
srishti ya vikasvad—bhaag 1: parmeshvar par kyon vishvas karein?
kya aap aur bhi yakeen ke saath doosron ko samjhana chahte hain ki aap kyon parmeshvar ko maante hain? agar koi aapke vishvas par saval karta hai to use kaise javab dena chahiye, is baare mein kuch sujhav jaaniye.
srishti ya vikasvad?—bhaag 2: vikasvad par saval kyon karein?
saval karne ke do buniyadi kaaran.
srishti ya vikasvad?—bhaag 3: srishti par yakeen kyon karein?
kya srishti par yakeen karne ke liye aapko vigyan ke khilaf hona hoga?
srishti ya vikasvad?—bhaag 4: main doosron ko kaise samjha sakta hoon ki main srishti par kyon vishvas karta hoon?
is duniya ko banaya gaya hai, yah samjhane ke liye aapko vigyan ka jaankar hone ki zaroorat nahin. bible mein saral shabdon mein di gayi daleelein istemal keejiye.
mujhe prarthna kyon karni chahiye?
kya prarthna karne se sirf man ki shaanti milti hai ya iske kuch aur bhi faayde hain?
bible meri madad kaise kar sakti hai?—bhaag 2: bible ki padhai ko banayen mazedar
is lekh mein diye paanch sujhav aazmane se aap bible mein batayi ghatnaon ko apni aankhon se hota hua dekh sakeinge.
baptisme ke baad mujhe kya karna hai? bhaag 1—upasna se jude kaam karte rahiye
baptisme ke baad parmeshvar ke saath apni dosti banaye rakhiye. bible padhte rahiye, prarthna karte rahiye, aap jo maante hain us baare mein doosron ko batate rahiye aur maseehi sabhaon mein jaate rahiye.