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Young People Ask

 

Friends

Why Don’t I Have Any Friends?

You’re not the only one to feel lonely and friendless. Find out how others your age counteract these feelings.

What if I Don’t Fit In?

Is it more important to fit in with people with questionable values, or to stay true to who you are?

Why Do I Always Say the Wrong Thing?

What advice can help you to think before you speak?

Is Flirting Harmless Fun?

Exactly what is flirting? Why do some people do it? Are there any dangers?

Family

I Broke a Family Rule​—What Now?

You can’t change what happened, but you can keep things from getting worse. This article will show you how.

How Can I Gain My Parents’ Trust?

Three practical steps that can help you to gain more freedom.

What if My Parent Is Sick?

You are not the only young person to face such a situation. Learn what helped two others to cope.

What if My Parents Are Divorcing?

How can you let go of sadness, anger and resentment?

Technology

How Important Is Online Popularity?

Some people risk their lives just to get more followers and likes. Is online popularity worth it?

How Is Social Media Affecting Me?

Social media is addictive. These suggestions can help you stay in control.

What if I’m Being Cyberbullied?

What you should know, and what you can do to protect yourself.

How Can I Learn to Focus?

Consider three situations where technology might interfere with your concentration and what you can do to improve focus.

School

How Can I Finish My Homework?

If you’re having problems getting your homework done, the solution might be, not to work harder, but to work smarter.

How to Succeed at Distance Learning

Many students are now getting their education at home. Five tips can help you succeed in your new “classroom.”

What if I Can’t Stand School?

Is your teacher boring you? Do some classes seem like a waste of time?

What if I’m Failing at School?

Before giving up, consider six steps you can take to get better grades.

Should I Drop Out of School?

The answer may involve more than you realize.

What if I’m Being Bullied?

Many who are bullied feel helpless. This article explains what can be done to improve the situation.

Life Skills

How Can I Control My Emotions?

Emotional ups and downs are common among young people but can also be confusing. The good news, though, is that you can understand your emotions and learn to control them.

How Can I Avoid Negative Thinking?

You can learn to cultivate positive thinking by following these suggestions.

How Can I Deal With Anxiety?

Five tips can help you make anxiety work for you rather than against you.

How Can I Cope With Grief?

It takes time for intense grief to subside. Consider the suggestions in this article, and see which ones are most helpful to you.

How Can I Resist Temptation?

Consider three important steps to overcome improper desires.

How Can I Manage My Time?

Five tips can help you to avoid wasting your valuable time.

How Should I Take Constructive Criticism?

Some people have been called teacups—so fragile that they shatter at the smallest dose of constructive criticism. Are you like that?

How Resilient Am I?

Because adversity is inevitable, it’s important for you to build resilience, no matter how trivial or how serious your problems may be.

How Can I Learn to Focus?

Consider three situations where technology might interfere with your concentration and what you can do to improve focus.

What if I Don’t Fit In?

Is it more important to fit in with people with questionable values, or to stay true to who you are?

Why Do I Always Say the Wrong Thing?

What advice can help you to think before you speak?

Why Should I Apologize?

Check out three good reasons to say ‘I’m sorry,’ even if you feel that you aren’t entirely in the wrong.

What if I’m Being Bullied?

Many who are bullied feel helpless. This article explains what can be done to improve the situation.

Identity

How Resilient Am I?

Because adversity is inevitable, it’s important for you to build resilience, no matter how trivial or how serious your problems may be.

How Should I Take Constructive Criticism?

Some people have been called teacups—so fragile that they shatter at the smallest dose of constructive criticism. Are you like that?

How Can I Train My Conscience?

Your conscience reflects who you are and what you stand for. What does your conscience say about you?

How Important Is Online Popularity?

Some people risk their lives just to get more followers and likes. Is online popularity worth it?

How Can I Stop Living a Double Life?

Four steps to help you stop this deceptive course.

How Can I Resist Temptation?

Consider three important steps to overcome improper desires.

How Do I Look?

Learn how to avoid three of the most common fashion mistakes.

Should I Get a Tattoo?

How can you make a wise decision?

Bad Habits

Is Cursing Really That Bad?

What can be wrong with something as common as profanity?

What if I’m Addicted to Pornography?

The Bible can help you to understand pornography for what it is.

How Can I Resist Temptation?

Consider three important steps to overcome improper desires.

Free Time

How Can I Manage My Time?

Five tips can help you to avoid wasting your valuable time.

Is the Occult Harmless Fun?

Many have developed interest in astrology, vampires, witchcraft, and zombies. Are there any dangers that you should be aware of?

Sex

What Should I Know About Sexual Assault?​—Part 1: Precautions

Three tips can help you to avoid being sexually assaulted.

What Should I Know About Sexual Assault?​—Part 2: Recovery

Read firsthand expressions from abuse victims who have recovered.

How Can I Explain My Beliefs About Sex?

If asked, ‘Are you still a virgin?’ can you explain your beliefs about sex from the Bible?

Is Oral Sex Really Sex?

Is a person who has had oral sex still a virgin?

Is Homosexuality Wrong?

Does the Bible teach that homosexuals are bad people? Can a Christian please God while feeling attracted to the same sex?

I’m Attracted to the Same Sex—Does That Mean I’m Gay?

Is it wrong to have homosexual urges? What should you do?

How Can I Keep My Mind Off Sex?

What practical steps can you take when thoughts about sex enter your mind?

What if I’m Addicted to Pornography?

The Bible can help you to understand pornography for what it is.

How Can I Resist Temptation?

Consider three important steps to overcome improper desires.

Dating

Am I Ready to Date?

Five points to help you determine if you’re ready for dating and marriage.

Is Flirting Harmless Fun?

Exactly what is flirting? Why do some people do it? Are there any dangers?

Physical Health

What Should I Know About Alcohol?

Learn how to avoid legal trouble, a damaged reputation, sexual assault, addiction, and death.

How Can I Get More Sleep?

Seven practical steps can help you get a better night’s sleep.

How Can I Get Motivated to Exercise?

Besides improving your physical health, are there any other benefits to regular exercise?

How Can I Lose Weight?

If you need to lose weight, don’t think in terms of following a diet but of adopting a healthy lifestyle.

Emotional Health

How Can I Control My Emotions?

Emotional ups and downs are common among young people but can also be confusing. The good news, though, is that you can understand your emotions and learn to control them.

How Can I Avoid Negative Thinking?

You can learn to cultivate positive thinking by following these suggestions.

How Can I Deal With Depression?

These coping strategies can help you take the necessary steps toward healing.

How Can I Deal With Anxiety?

Five tips can help you make anxiety work for you rather than against you.

How Resilient Am I?

Because adversity is inevitable, it’s important for you to build resilience, no matter how trivial or how serious your problems may be.

How Can I Cope With Grief?

It takes time for intense grief to subside. Consider the suggestions in this article, and see which ones are most helpful to you.

What if I Don’t Want to Live Anymore?

Four practical tips that can help you overcome the feeling that your life isn’t worth living.

What if I’m Being Bullied?

Many who are bullied feel helpless. This article explains what can be done to improve the situation.

What if I’m Being Cyberbullied?

What you should know, and what you can do to protect yourself.

How Is Social Media Affecting Me?

Social media is addictive. These suggestions can help you stay in control.

What Should I Know About Sexual Assault?​—Part 2: Recovery

Read firsthand expressions from abuse victims who have recovered.

Spirituality

Why Should I Pray?

Is prayer just a psychological crutch, or is it something more?

Why Attend Meetings at the Kingdom Hall?

Twice each week Jehovah’s Witnesses hold meetings in their places of worship, called Kingdom Halls. What goes on there, and how can you benefit by attending?

How Can I Stop Living a Double Life?

Four steps to help you stop this deceptive course.

How Can the Bible Help Me?​—Part 1: Exploring Your Bible

If you came across a huge ancient treasure chest, wouldn’t you be curious about what’s inside? The Bible is just such a treasure chest. It contains many gems.

How Can the Bible Help Me?​—Part 2: Make Bible Reading Enjoyable

Five tips can make the Scriptures come alive for you.

How Can the Bible Help Me?—Part 3: Get the Most From Your Bible Reading

Four tips that can help you get the most from your Bible reading.

How Can I Train My Conscience?

Your conscience reflects who you are and what you stand for. What does your conscience say about you?

What Will I Need to Do After Baptism?​—Part 1: Keep Up Your Activity

After your baptism, maintain your friendship with God. Keep studying the Bible, praying, sharing your beliefs, and attending Christian meetings.

What Will I Need to Do After Baptism?​—Part 2: Maintain Your Integrity

See how you can live up to your vow of dedication to Jehovah.